

Other issues surround the tropes themselves. Rest assured, nookie was brought forward considerably in subsequent drafts. At the time of writing, I was nervous about writing my first sex scene and felt that I had to fall in love with Rory before he could have sex with Zoe/me… My alpha reader was literally screaming at me down the phone to make things happen between them. When I was writing Highland Games, the first sex scene didn’t happen until ninety percent through. If you have the trope of continual ‘will they, won’t they’ sexual tension between your characters, then the longer it is eked out, the more annoyed your reader is likely to be. They have to have more to their relationship than the one point connection of a trope. So, if we have the ‘friends to lovers’ trope with no explanation as to why they are friends and what makes their relationship a success, then simply calling them ‘friends’ then having them get drunk and make out isn’t going to cut it. The first issue with tropes is when they are used with a heavy hand.

It’s time to redefine what love means in romantic literature: tenderness and devotion, not blind lust.Here are the twelve most popular tropes used in romance novels. It’s a sad situation and one that must be rectified, preferably with a greater appreciation for the “grouchy character that has a soft spot for only one person” trope. Many have fallen victim to enemies to lovers, even against their own will. It’s an obsession, a dangerous infatuation, and one that romance-lovers must arm themselves against. What exists nowadays isn’t a logical argument for why enemies to lovers is an acceptable trope and deserves the hype. Many fans enjoy characters that choose to love each other against the odds.įans enjoy themes of redemption and acceptance where two people are willing to look past flaws and pursue love. I will make one concession: enemies to lovers isn’t completely bad. With this critique, I can envision angry fans carrying pitchforks and lighting fires. Who cares about showing your partner that you care for their well-being and want to get to know them for some reason other than sex?Įnemies to lovers teaches audiences that what matters most in a relationship is passion and sexual tension, not creating a strong foundation with your partner that will last. Normal conventions for getting to know someone before you date them all get thrown out to sea when you’re enemies. Who wants to be in a relationship with someone they hate? (Apparently, many people.) Rather than basing the relationship upon mutual respect and care for each other, enemies to lovers seems to capitalize on the sexual tension present. The whole concept of enemies to lovers leaves a bad taste in the mouth. The trope has since then grown wildly out of control, with its fans willing to “ship” even the most antagonistic characters. Popular young adult books, such as “The Hunger Games” and “Divergent,” introduced this trope to younger crowds and since then it has been steadily growing in popularity. Oh, how romantic!Įnemies to lovers is by no means a new concept - “Pride and Prejudice” can speak to that - but its popularity seems to have skyrocketed since the early 2000s. While characters don’t always start out as bitter rivals who set out to kill each other - although sometimes they do - what defines this cliche is the clear presence of tension and some sort of animosity between the characters.

While this seems like the weakest of foundations upon which to build a relationship, millions of adoring fans would argue that there are nuances to the relationship. “Enemies to lovers” is exactly what it sounds like: two enemies become lovers. One trope has come to stand at the forefront, with millions of romance-lovers ready to defend it to the death: enemies to lovers.

With the surge of popularity in shows like “Bridgerton” and niche sections of social media like “Booktok,” everyone and their mother can now pinpoint their favorite romance cliches.įrom childhood friends, to fake dating, to forced proximity, the pick of poisons is endless. It is a truth universally acknowledged that every lover of romance novels must also have a favorite romance trope. Is a famous example of an enemies to lovers trope. Katniss and Peeta’s relationship in the Hunger Games trilogy
